GUYS + ROMANCE = NO CLUE

OKAY LADIES DOES ROMANCE EVEN EXIST ANYMORE WITH GUYS THESE DAYS?  GOOD QUESTION RIGHT?! S/O TO http://www.quest4luv.weebly.com/ WHO INSPIRED ME ON MY TOPIC TODAY...  NOW I SWEAR IT SEEMS LIKE GUYS ARE ALWAYS CLUELESS WHEN IT COMES TO WHAT A GIRL REALLY WANTS AND ROMANCE IS AT THE VERY TOP OF THE LIST FOR US WOMEN.  AREN'T WE TIRED OF TRAINING THESE FELLAS ON THINGS THEY SHOULD ALREADY KNOW?? COME ON GUYS STEP YA GAME UP!!

I GUESS ITS 2011 ROMANCE JUST MIGHT BE DEAD... SO IF WE WANT OUR GUY TO BE UP ON OUR NEEDS THEN LET THE TRAINING BEGIN!! SO I JUST MADE A LIST OF TOP 5 THINGS WOMEN CAN DO TO GIVE HER GUY A CLUE.

1. Communicate. Tell your guy what's important to you and explain the romantic things you would like from him. Romanticism involves emotion, not a specific action. 
2. Be considerate. Don't demand!! Guys tend to shut down or run away from women who demand things. Don't be shallow and demand material things outright. Again, express your wants and needs gently. Let your guy feel empowered to make things happen for you.
3.  Guide him and show him things you might like. Flowers and a back rub can have the same effect. Remember, this is about how something makes you feel, not material things only.
4. Drop the expectations. If you have a specific scenario in mind and your guy doesn't deliver it perfectly the way you want it, you're going to be disappointed. Relax and let him find his way, your guy will find ways to be romantic that he is comfortable with, and you'll be happy because he came up with stuff on his own.
5.  Reciprocate. all demands and no reciprocity is no fun and will not make your guy want to do more for you. Do things for him that he finds romantic, and he'll be much more willing to do things for you!

SO JUST A FEW THINGS FOR YOU LADIES TO TRY OUT. PERSONALLY MY GUY IS VERY CLUELESS ON ROMANCE, SOME GUYS GET IT AND SOME GUYS DONT AND I FELL IN LOVE WITH A GUY WHO DIDNT LOL. HE HAS HIS LITTLE THINGS THAT HE DOES DO BUT AGAIN LADIES I STRESS!! DO NOT EXPECT YOUR MAN TO JUST KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!!! 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THEY WILL NOT KNOW SO PLEASE COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR MEN AND THE MORE HAPPY YOU WILL BE :) PROMISE!!


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